Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Wisdom for the Trials of Life


Understanding God's Perspective by Dr. Charles Stanley

Why does God allow us to go through hard times. Sometimes, Christians assume that if they're following the Lord, He should protect them from problems. But Jesus never promised His disciples lives of ease and comfort. On the contrary, He told them to expect tribulation (John 16:33 - 33 These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world.”). After all, Christ Himself wasn't exempt from affliction. He was called " a man of sorrows" (Isa. 53:3 - 3 He was despised and forsaken of men,  A man of [a]sorrows and acquainted with [b]grief; And like one from whom men hide their face He was despised, and we did not esteem Him. )

Trials have been the common experience of mankind throughout history. By looking back on such situations from God's perspective, we can gain insight that will help us respond wisely in the future. The Lord uses hardships to achieve something good in our lives, but whether we experience these benefits depends upon our response.

Develop the right attitude

What is your behavior when experiencing difficulty or pain? Do you grumble and complain or indulge in self-pity? Or do you get angry and blame others for your troubles? All these reactions lead to despair and misery, but James 1: 2-6 presents a totally different perspective about suffering: "Consider it all joy, my brethren when you encounter various trials (v.2) 

Some may read that verse and think, What a preposterous statement! Trials and tears go together. How is joy possible? Yet James obviously understands something about suffering that we need to know. The word  consider is a financial term which means "to evaluate." James isn't telling us to delight in pain and be happy about suffering, but to assess our trials as an opportunity to receive the blessings God has promised us when we respond wisely.

I don't know what you're facing right now. But I do know that if you're willing to count it as joy, you will find God's goodness right in the middle of suffering. Unlike happiness, joy is not dependent upon pleasant circumstances, because it's produced by the indwelling Holy Spirit.

Determine the source

Have you ever noticed that troubles come in all shapes and sizes? They also tend to pop up unexpectedly, and sometimes one right after another. In fact, you may feel as if you're dealing with an entire range of difficulties.

Knowing how a trial began can help you understand the wise way to react. Since our problems originate from different sources, we need to adapt our responses accordingly. Each time you encounter difficulty, ask the Lord to help you determine the cause and the proper response. Here are some common sources of hardship:

      Self: Sometimes we get ourselves in trouble with our own choices or actions. We may find   ourselves standing in a field of trials simply because we've planted troublesome seed and are now reaping what we've sown (Gal. 6: 7-8 7 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap. 8 For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.) The good news is that if we'll repent and humble ourselves, the Lord will redeem our failures and teach us valuable lessons.

     Others: But there are also times when our problems result from someone else's decisions or conduct. Perhaps a loved one's behavior has caused you suffering, or maybe an enemy is maliciously accusing or maligning you. Either way the pain is real. Your job is to forgive those who wrong you, guard against resentment and seek god's wisdom in dealing with the situation in a way that honors Him.

      World: Many of our trials are simply a result of living in a fallen world. Accidents happen, people get sick, natural disasters strike, wars erupt; and we have no control over any of it. Our hope is that one day when Christ returns, all this will end - we'll finally live at peace. In the meantime, drawing on the sustaining power of the Holy Spirit will enable us to respond in a manner that draws others to the Savior.

     Satan: We also have an Adversary who wants to devour us. The Devil is constantly working against us to weaken our faith, ruin our testimony, and make us useless in the kingdom of God. But we're not helpless against his onslaught. The Father has given us His spiritual armor to protect us from enemy attacks (Eph 6:11 -11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.)

    God: Because the Lord is sovereign on all things, no trial can touch us unless He has first allowed it to do so. Our heavenly Father knows that sometimes the only way we'll grow spiritually is through suffering. Pain can sharpen our sensitivity to His presence and give us ears to hear when we have been deaf to His voice. It reveals hidden sins and purifies us the way fire refines gold. From a human perspective, trials hurt; but from God's viewpoint, they are a bridge to a deeper relationship with Him. 

Understanding God's purposes

Meaningless suffering is exhausting and demoralizing, but if we understand that there is a purpose and a benefit to our troubles, we can endure just about anything. The reason James could rejoice in trials was because he knew God was achieving something good. Though we may not know His specific purpose for each individual challenge or obstacle, Scripture reveals His overall goals. 

--->The testing of your faith. For faith to be genuine, it must be tested - just as weightlifters rely on resistance to make their muscles stronger. when everything's going well, it is easy to say, "Sure, I trust the Lord." But when times get tough, confidence in Him can take a nosedive. will you believe and act on the truths in Scripture or let hardship cause you to doubt His love and care for you? Each moment of adversity you face is an opportunity to believe God, rest in His promises, and grow further into His likeness.

--->Produce endurance. One of the most valuable qualities the Lord desires to produce in our life is endurance. That may not be what we desire when suffering knocks on our door. But the Lord knows that some lessons are learned only under the pressure of adversity. Yet even then, He sovereignly and lovingly protects us by determining the length and intensity of each trial. Although we may think we can't endure it, He knows our limits and will not go beyond them. The kind of endurance God wants us is not resignation in which we grumble saying "Well, I can't do anything to change my situation so I guess I'm stuck with it." His goal is that we patiently abide the trial with an attitude of unfailing trust in His goodness and complete reliance upon His strangth. The only way we can do this is to have a firm determination to live for His purposes, regardless of the cost.

--->That you may be perfect and complete. James tells us that to endure hardships in this way will have amazing results - but not that we're going to be sinless. "Perfect and complete" means that we will be mature and fully developed. Being born again is not the end goal in the Christian life; it's just the beginning. From that point on, God wants us to grow up to become mature men and women of faith. His goal is to conform us to the image of His Son (Rom. 8:29 - 29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren) and trials play a vital role in this life long process. He uses them to sand away ungodly qualities, sift out sinful habits and attitudes, and polish our character until we reflect Christ.

--->Lacking in nothing. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of trials is that they supply something we need. If you endure hardship with the right attitude, James says you'll come out "lacking in nothing" (1:4) The apostle Paul said that his "thorn in the flesh" was given to teach him humility and dependence on Christ. (2 Cor. 12:7-10, 7 Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself! 8 Concerning this I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me. 9 And He has said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. 10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.) But he also says that the Lord comforted him in his afflictions so that he'd be able to comfort others. If you want to become useful in God's kingdom, brokenness is the path the Lord uses to produce the qualities needed to accomplish His will.

Cooperate with God's goals.

Although all of these benefits are available to you, they are not automatically yours. But by following James' commands in these few verses, we open ourselves up to God's promised blessings - all the tools we need to live victoriously in Him. So consider trials as an occasion for joy, and let endurance produce its fruit, because then your suffering will be profitable both now and in eternity. If you lack wisdom in responding to trials, the Lord invites you to ask Him for it and in faith expect to receive. (James 1: 5-6,  'But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. ) 

The crown of life awaits those who persevere under trial and are approved (1:12 Blessed (happy, to be envied) is the man who is patient under trial and stands up under temptation, for when he has stood the test and been approved, he will receive [the victor's] crown of life which God has promised to those who love Him.) God wants to do great things in you - and he will, if you let Him. But He won't force any of this upon you. The choice is yours. Won't you allow Him to use adversity to transform you?

(In a Nutshell..) 

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Intouch magazine January 2011 issue 

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